Why women test and why you should accept that?

A woman will always test a man. Her test may come as a complaint, as a challenge to her man, doubt, changing her mind or even question his purpose. A man should never thing a woman’s test will end and his life will become easier. Rather, he should appreciate that she does that to feel his strength and integrity. As a man grows, so will her testing.

The most erotic moment for a woman is feeling that you are the divine masculine type of person: fully present, totally loving, someone that she cant move you out of your centre because you are what you are, with or without her. She cannot scare you, she cannot distract you. By finding out this freedom in you, she can trust you and surrender her testing. And by being that kind of masculine man, then she will test you the most.

Even after you successfully got the job that you wanted or the promotion with a huge sum of money as bonus, you come home to share the news with her and all she will do is to tell you why you haven’t fix the broken tap in the toilet. Now that means that she undermine your success? No. She is simple challenging you because her success doesn’t mean much to her unless you are free and loving, and if you are these two then nothing can collapse you. She wants you like a rock and she will poke you on your weakest spot so she can see how much can you stand. If your woman is weak, she will settle for a weak guy and play into your need to feel like a good boy. So, she will test you. She might not fully realise of why she is doing it, but she will lay her hand on your weak spots, especially in moments of success in order to feel your strength.

If you remain full and strong, humorous and happy by her testing, then you pass the test. ‘Baby I will fix the tap, alright?’ you say as you grab her and lay her on the couch, laughing, kissing, looking deeply into her eyes with confidence. Now she can relax and truly enjoy your success, knowing that you are not dependent on her praise for your happiness. It will last, maybe ten minutes and then she test you again. It will never end. A woman will always test her man for the pleasure of feeling his strength in loving, his persistence in his own truth and his capacity to share that truth in love with her, even when she is complaining — especially when she is complaining. Her complaint is the beginning of her pleasure. It is not a criticism but a test on your masculinity.

The most loving women are the women who will test you the most. She wants you to be your fullest, most magnificent self. She wont settle for anything less. Anything less that that she will torment and as you know, she really good at it.